Lee Mayimele

Category: Aha! Moments

Do you give the silent treatment? And have you ever ghosted someone?

It’s the same toxic pattern, just in a different setting. Instead of fostering a productive environment, it creates confusion and resentment.
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Desiderata

Go placidly amid the noise and haste,and remember what peace there may be in silence.As far as possible without surrenderbe on good terms with all persons.Speak your truth quietly and clearly;and listen to others,even to the dull and the ignorant;they too have their story.Avoid loud and aggressive persons,they are vexations to the spirit.If you compare…
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Did you know that BUTTERFLIES can’t see their own wings?

This distorted view can chip away at our confidence and self-assurance, leaving us seeking validation from external sources.
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We have to normalise not calling everyone our FRIENDS

We have to stop calling everyone we know our friends. Whatever happened to referring to people as my neighbour, ex-colleague, business associate, acquaintance, client, daughter’s swimming coach, or hairdresser?
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You CANNOT Water Fake Flowers & Expect Them to Grow

I’ve come to understand the truth behind the saying “water has no effect on fake flowers” through some of my most challenging relationships.
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Dear Kids

You have a story that only YOU can tell and you owe it to yourself (and no one else) to express that story in the world. Your way!
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I don’t know who needs to hear this but: You ARE Enough!

I don’t know what needs to hear this but: You ARE Enough!
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Forgive Yourself

Forgive yourself for not forgiving yourself sooner …and breathe!
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Trusting the Path: A Chance Encounter at Woolies Sparks Reflection on Faith and Purpose

I was nodding and smiling as he spoke, watching his blue eyes sparkle and his sangoma beads pop.
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The Beauty of Letting Down Your Guard

This week’s whirlwind had me spinning, but in the midst of it all, a courageous friend broke the ice, sparking a profound moment in our WhatsApp group.
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